Back when I was a kid,
belonging to a youth group was common, and so was wearing a youth group uniform. My church-sponsored youth group was the Pioneer Girls. with Pilgrims
being for the younger girls and Colonists for the older ones. We had a lot of
fun. Working on badges, going camping, having singsongs and making things. I
was totally involved. Of course,
being a church-sponsored organization, it did have an underlying motive. It
wasn’t just about having fun and learning new skills. It was about absorbing an evangelical Christian doctrine.
My own children
started off in Girl Guides and Boy Scouts. After a few years, their interest waned and
I didn’t encourage them. I began having my doubts about the badges, the marches
and the salutes. To the cynic in me, it all smacked of militarism.
And so, my kids traded
in their uniforms for team jerseys. Camping trips turned into tournaments in other cities. The great outdoors became a soccer pitch, a baseball diamond, or a chlorinated swimming pool. Competition became more fun than co-operation.
When I asked one of my
kids about her memories of belonging to Girl Guides, she said they were good memories. It
was mostly about the friends. And
when I look back, I remember much of the good things, too. That’s where I learned
how to crochet, to embroider, to make a fire, to share a good ghost story. I made a lot of friends too and had some exciting adventures.
By joining a soccer team, kids gain physical
fitness, learn to be a team player, learn self-discipline, make friends and
grow as people. They don't learn how to crochet or make a fire. But then, I guess those
skills aren’t necessary anymore. Me? I’m grateful for them anyway.
Why am I meandering on
about youth groups? Because I’m looking into the BDM (aka Bund Deutsche Maedchen)—the Band of German Girls—especially during the Nazi, pre-war years. The BDM was a highly structured
organization open to girls ages ten and up. Their joining date would be on the
eve of the Fuhrer’s birthday in April. When
they joined they became “property of the Fuehrer.”*
(Photo Attribution: Bundesarchiv, Bild 102-04517A / Georg Pahl / CC-BY-SA)
( *from STUDIES OF MIGRATION AND SETTLEMENT Administrative Series Subject: Women in Nazi Germany—I Organizations Date: July 25, 1944)
Kids are sponges. They
soak up anything and everything. What a gift to us adults—and what a
responsibility.
2 comments:
I went to Pioneer Girls too -- learned to hand sew a button hole and to darn a sock. Have never done the former since, but once or twice the latter!
I went to Pioneer Girls too! That's where I learned to hand sew a button hole, not that I've ever done once since, but also embroider, which I did do later.
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